
By Kalvin Valdillez, Tulalip News
Tulalip has made strong efforts over the years to reclaim and celebrate their traditional way of life. Whether that is through the revitalization of their ancestral language, the practice of harvesting from and the caretaking of the natural world, the connection to the songs and dances of their people, or the passing of those teachings to the upcoming generations. Tulalip has, in many ways, become synonymous with words such as culture, tradition, and heritage.

Among the many things that were stripped away from tribal communities during the years of assimilation, such as the language, the songs, dances, stories and spirituality, was how our people view sexuality and gender identity within our nations. All across Indian Country, in recent years, there has been a reawakening. And through studying our shared history and ancestral knowledge, it has become undisputedly clear that countless tribes not only acknowledged but also celebrated and relied upon people who identified as a third gender within their communities, known as Two Spirits.
Embodying both masculine and feminine energies, Two Spirits played a significant role in ancestral times. The community looked to them for their wisdom and perspective, as they were believed to have the gift of double vision. Back in the day, within numerous tribes, Two Spirits were known to have a deeper connection to the spiritual world and thus served as healers and visionaries for their people.

In true Tulalip fashion, the tribal community has intentionally put their energy and time into reclaiming the narrative of how we perceive the Two Spirit people, ensuring that they feel welcome, loved, honored, understood, and seen, and that they always have a space to celebrate who they are. One example of this is the annual Pride gathering held every summer on the reservation.
This year marked the fourth annual Tulalip Pride celebration. Held at the Tulalip Gathering Hall, this event has grown exponentially since it debuted at the multi-sports complex in 2022. Over 250 people traveled from near and far for the 2025 event, to show their pride as members of the LGBTQ+ community, or for allies, to show their support to their loved ones who identify as lesbian, gay, bi-sexual, transgender, or queer.

“I had to come,” exclaimed Jackie Crane (Cowlitz) of Seattle. “I found the event on Instagram and always wanted to check out an Indigenous queer event. I haven’t been up here, haven’t seen this space before, so I was really excited to come and see it. I think being queer and Indigenous is not a common intersexuality to have and so seeing such a wide variety of folks who support us and want to be involved in the community and support each other and hype each other up, I think that’s really important. I was impressed by the generosity and so grateful for the wide variety of folks who came out and of showed their support.”

Also making the trip north from the city was Nigerian American, Shola Colonduro, who reflected on the parallels between the colonization his people of Nigeria and those of Native America. Shola stated, “I have come to every Tulalip Pride so far. I come here because I enjoy the vibes, I like all the dancing, but more importantly, I get to learn something every time I come here. This event means a lot to us, the Two Spirit and LGBTQ+ community.
“Our community has dealt with a lot of struggles and that’s due to an element of colonialism – they tried to strip that away and shame those who are Two Spirit and those who are gender non-conforming. Between the colonization of this country and the country now known as Nigeria, the people know we didn’t draw those lines. The settlers did. And in many ways, there are similar issues here and I see how that struggle connects where colonization has affected our cultures. I think it’s an important part of the decolonial effort to support those who are Two Spirit and LGBTQ+ amongst the Indigenous communities who are still here now. And I hope we can continue with this decolonizing dream together, whether it’s within ourselves or our communities.”
The vibrant colors of the Pride and transgender flags were on display throughout the entire Hall. People adorned in rainbow-colored shirts, hats, and leis, lost their selves in the moment and danced to the beats that DJ Auntie Monie dropped throughout the three-hour event.

Taking in some sunshine outside the Hall, near the snow cone line and bean bag toss games, Tribal member, Santana Paul, simply shared, “I came today to celebrate Pride! I am bi-sexual, and it brought me a lot of joy to see that everyone was so welcoming. I loved the face painting, the music, and just everybody’s laughter.”
Santana’s statement perfectly coincided with this year’s theme, which was Sharing Our Medicine, as it is often said that laughter is the best medicine. To expand further on that notion, the headliner of the event was none other than Native Comedienne, Toni Jo Hall, who took on her raunchy and hilarious persona, Auntie Beachress for the Pride celebration.

Nearly everyone in attendance had tears coming from their eyes from laughter as Auntie Beachress served up some top-tier Native humor, touching on subjects such as dealing with tribal council, snagging culture, and misadventures at the bingo hall. Following her set, Auntie Beachress held a meet and greet where she signed posters and posed for photos with the event goers.
Tribal member and new mother, Lauralee Tom, expressed, “My favorite was Auntie Beachress. I follow her on social media, and this is my second time meeting her at Tulalip. I came here to volunteer; I passed out the food and shirts. It was really exciting because there was so much happiness today. And most of all, I’m glad I got to bring my son here. His name is Hunter Bill, he is six months old today and a new Tulalip tribal member. This was a fun event and I’m glad we got to connect with more people.”
Keeping true to the Sharing Our Medicine theme, numerous tribal programs were invited to the Pride event to share resources with the community. Tables were stationed all along the outer rim of the Hall, where attendees could learn about the various services those programs offer, as well as take part in craft making.

While visiting representatives of programs such as Family Haven, Lushootseed, TOCLA, the Child Advocacy Center and the Legacy of Healing, as well as the Tulalip Youth Council, participants had the opportunity to create items including medicine bundles, prayer pouches, beaded regalia, and paintings. And each person at the event also walked away with a T-shirt designed by Tribal member, Marysa Joy Slyvester.
Said Warm Springs tribal member, Loni Long, “I came to support my brother-in-law, Angel, because I love him very much and I wanted him to know he has a community here at Tulalip on the rez; he lives here in the area. I enjoyed the dancing, and Auntie Beachress. And also, just all the cool stuff, the beautiful shirts, artwork, and all the community. There were a lot of people here and that’s amazing to see. I’m looking forward to next year and I’m going to bring more people.”

Loni’s brother-in-law, Wilson ‘Angel’ Whitefoot, added, “Today was good. I feel happy that we’re getting the recognition and are able to dance and feel that respect from our elders. My favorite part was probably the dancing, the food, and the games. I just want to thank everybody for being here and showing us support, because not too long ago, we didn’t have this kind of support and now we finally do.”
Tia Pinzon (Spokane), Tulalip Heritage High’s Trauma Informed Counselor, voiced, “I wanted to be in community with everyone and support the event. It’s important to show support because not everybody feels safe in who they are, and we need to show up for folks and show them they’re safe with us. I helped my friend Jacob at his Evergreen State College table – they have a really awesome Indigenous student program, so I wanted him to get connected with folks. We got our picture with Auntie Beachress and had fun stopping at all the different tables and saying hi to everyone.”

DJ Auntie Monie held a cake-walk style game, where the winner received prizes such as wool blankets, formline artwork, books, and carvings.
And many attendees were also pleasantly surprised to meet Tulalip Author, SummerLee Blankenship. SummerLee distributed and signed copies of her newly published book, The Greatest Teacher of All.
About her book, SummerLee remarked, “It’s a story about my life. It’s a very condensed version, but it’s something that I always knew would happen eventually. And it was just kind of like a little nudge, from the man upstairs, and he was like, you know, it’s time. And my dad also inspired me to do it now. I’m a recovering drug addict, and I went through the majority of 20 years of using hard drugs. I’ve been clean and sober over three years now. So it’s basically a story about what that kind of looked like. I went to treatment 18 times, had a multiple criminal history, and then going from that to my healing journey, through ceremony and prayer. And, you know, working with the medicines that the Earth offers to heal and working on that connection and finding myself, and remembering who I truly am and why I’m here. I wrote the book to not just share my story with hope that it reaches who it needs to reach, but with the hope that it will encourage others to also pursue their dreams.

“This was my first book signing since I published the book, so it was really beautiful and wholesome, and it was like full circle for me. To see so many people come out and support the event and the LGBTQ+ community, it goes to show that people are finding their voices and that they’re learning how to stand for something they believe in and who they are. There’s so much going on in the world that isn’t right, and it’s just really beautiful to see the camaraderie and the coming together as one, especially here on our land with our people.”
Following another successful Tulalip Pride, event organizer, Phoenix Two-Spirit, shared, “It was marvelous to see the support, not just of the Two Spirit people, but from the allies. That fills my heart with joy to see the allies come out and support the Two Spirit and LGBTQ+ community. This was the fourth annual Tulalip Pride and we’re going to continue going as long as we can because it’s such an awesome event. Thank you for the support of the Tulalip community to be able to do this, because we need it.”